I'm just curious what everyone's thoughts are on monogomous relationships. And I have a few questions/scenarios around the subject.
1. Does monogomy coincide with our natural tendencies? (I think that question may pertain more to men than to women, right?)
2. Is it possible to have a totally loving and trusting, yet "open" (sexually) relationship? Is it only our insecurities that make us want our partners to "belong" to us and us alone?
3. Let's say someone was in a committed relationship with someone of the opposite sex but had never explored a same sex encounter. The opportunity presents itself and they want to "check it out" even if nothing more than for curiosity's sake. Is part of the stigma attached to cheating the man vs man and woman vs woman competition aspect? Could it be perceived as less like "cheating" and more like "innocent exploration" if it is a first encounter with someone of the same sex?
http://www.captaincynic.com/thread/29625/monogomy.htm
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And no, I didn't get this one from Ask men.