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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Thu 17 Jun 2010 - 0:38

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she will never leave the farken dump now to be with her kids.......farken ell

so, how's your wife and kids frodo u anus,

seen them at all this year?
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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Thu 17 Jun 2010 - 0:42

i luv being everyone here meliie yay yay cheers



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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Thu 17 Jun 2010 - 0:55

hi and bye frodo u anus

c u back soon using another name you need to hide behind Rolling Eyes
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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Thu 17 Jun 2010 - 0:58

see you soon melinda Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Thu 17 Jun 2010 - 1:15

Uranus, I'm a little busy today, so you will have to be patient, and wait for the medication trolley.


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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Fri 18 Jun 2010 - 0:05

shadyisback wrote:
And YOU are full of shit! The dates on the "alledged videos" were well before I even went to qld.

Does mulnut know you are here trying to defend him by making up further lies?

Just like you tried to blame him for all the calls?

Pschyo


Brock, you are a trouble maker and play friends off one against the other, this and dont appear to be able to maintain long term friendships.

When I gauge whether or not someone is "unwell" one of the first things I look for is how well they have been able to maintain long term friendships.

Given you burn friends so readily, and even go so far as to cause trouble between those who are/were friends at some stage, (probably out of sheer jealousy because you cant maintain any meaningful friendships of your own) tells me you are unlikely to have any long term friendships at all.
Why else would you have called a perfect stranger off the net to assist you with life's problems if you had real-life friends you could depend on? ...(most would find this embarrassing)...

I think whats sad about this is that when you are on fire, you are quite creative, and can relate reasonably well with others when you are not being an idiot, but I think allot of what you do (burning friends) stems from your insecurities, you worry they will lose interest, so you set about securing friendships by being needy and demanding, and when this fails, or you fear they are losing interest in you, you begin sabotaging their relationships with others, perhaps to isolate them from others so you may have them all to yourself?

I have a friend like this (not quite as disrupted as yourself though), and she was becoming quite clingy, this and would in her own way "put down" some of my long term friends, (accused one of my friends of being some lecherous old perve even) I think for attention, this and or to cheese me off him so she could have my undivided attention.

At which point, I had to put a stop to it and make a choice.

Either I was going to allow this clingy needy possessive individual compromise my long term friendships..friendships I have maintained with people since I was at school, or piss them off and be her number one friend.

Needless to say, I gave her the boot.

Well, not entirely, we still keep in touch, (I still care about her welfare), but we aren't as close, as she has issues with crowds, becomes socially anxious and solemn when we have BBQ's and she is no longer the center of my attention.

Eg...

"Last night at your BBQ, you barely spoke to me Mel, you just let me sit there talking to people I hardly knew for hours as you were too "busy" organising food and chatting about old times with your other "more important" friends, I felt so left out."

When I hold BBQ's/informal get-togethers I always make a point of talking to everyone I invite, flit from group to group, table to table so as to be as social as possible with as many people I can even with those who I have not met before my friends have brought with them. She on the other hand sits in a corner like a wet blanket scouring at people this or trying to cling to me when I'm trying to socialise with my other more social friends, ones I have had for years.... some I don't get to see too often (interstate)...and clearly, this annoyed her, despite her living right next door to me at the time, this and practically living in my loungeroom at one stage. She became too needy, clingy and put-out when I would socialise with my other friends, due to her own insecurities and inability to mingle with others she doesn't know well comfortably.
Me, I will talk the ass off a chair!

Wherever I go... *cringe*

Brock, you are classically co-dependent, this and are quite needy, possessive and controlling also, I figured this out the first time you called me, and knew immediately there was something not quite right.

I am a mum, and have to be careful about who I form friendships with, and to be honest with you, I'm content with the handful of really close friends that I have known for over 15 years, (those I could trust with my life) and whilst I have others I have known for a lot less, I don't really have any ambitions to befriend just any individual I meet off the net, which s why I have never jumped at the chance of getting in da'hood.

Smile I had no need.

You need to stop the school yard games this and burning the limited friends you do have (or had) and playing them off one against the other like pawns in your army. You are manipulative, tell lies and can be quite malicious and thoughtless.

With you it's flavor of the month....who ever is paying the most attention to you, and or willing to put up with you is your besty of the month. Nothing appears to be stable or consistent.

Sorry, but I don't think your friendship or attentions are is worth writhing for, (Jen might think otherwise, she probably has a head problem too)... but personally, and without being too mean here, I really think you need to grow the f8ck up and get on some sort of 'legal' medication for a change.

Nothing will change until you accept there is something wrong with you.

Now, I'm not sure if it;s substance induced, a pre-existing mental health issue, or you are just damaged goods....either way, nothing is ever too broken that it cant be fixed.

OK!

Good luck.







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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Fri 18 Jun 2010 - 0:21

These people are fantastic, I have a friend who is currently participating in one of their courses now, and it's really changed her entire outlook on life.

I'm not normally a person to refer people on to do these sorts of courses, on account of my knowing there are quite a few private services out there that are just out to line their own wallets, but this mob are really good, and I think (if you are on benefits) you can be exempt from course fees. My friend works, but she pays the minimal fees, (you will need to look into it more yourself if you are serious about helping yourself ....but they are well worth a thought.

Failing this you could contact your local community health care center or local hospital if you live in a semi-rural area and they should be able to refer you to the appropriate people.

Look at this site, ...honestly, this is the best advice I can give you.

http://www.relationships.com.au/

It's a more dignified way of seeking help, ie, doing a course -vrs- receiving counseling.

Good luck.
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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Fri 18 Jun 2010 - 0:36

It's currently International Men's Health Week, so nows as good a time as any to get your life back on track.

Smile , And no, for once I'm not being a smart ass... I don't think you realise what you do and or how what you do compromises your own relationships.


http://www.relationships.com.au/

If Fords is genuine about studying social sciences as someone here suggests, then he should be armed with an alternative list of recourses, as it's been quite a while since I was at uni studying behavioral/social sciences myself (though only as part of a nursing degree) ...so he "MAY" be more up to speed with respects to the current services available to you.





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If you are simply a showman, setting out to create forum interest, this and just carry on like this to direct traffic to yahoos boards (not funny, as some people actually believe you are in distress here)...then please ignore the above unfunny clown brocko.



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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Fri 18 Jun 2010 - 2:08

They are all as disturbed as each other so there is no hope for any of what posts over there on yahoos forums if this is any indication.
And they all appear to know so much about each other personal information wise this is.
http://au.messages.yahoo.com/news/general-discussion/766343?p=19
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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Mon 21 Jun 2010 - 1:38

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PostSubject: Re: The United States of Tara/Melli   Mon 21 Jun 2010 - 2:45

Like I said, this nonsense will stop come Monday morning, one way or another.

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With or without access to my admin panel.

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